First off, I really enjoy the mission of your company. I think pairing with someone to be your co-founder will be relatively easy, once you know where to look.
Personally, I am a huge fan of LinkedIn. I would first start there and search for people within a 50 mile radius, with the keyword "fashion" (and similar words). I think that this will bring up a good list of geographically proximate professionals who have the interest in your company's product.
I would then contact them and try to pitch your product/company. Pitch the idea that it is to 'inspire women to express their personality through their appearance and fashion'. That is a powerful mission and I believe people will soak it up and be moved by it (I liked your idea just by the short few sentences that you put). Once they are hooked on the idea, and you, then it is time to ask them to co-found with you.
I think this is a good place to start. I would love to speak more with you about your company and potential ideas to further it (and its mission).